حکمت 322: (وقتی امام از جنگ صفین باز می گشت به… · Saying 322

وَ رُوِيَ أَنَّهُ (عليه السلام) لَمَّا وَرَدَ الْكُوفَةَ قَادِماً مِنْ صِفِّينَ مَرَّ بِالشِّبَامِيِّينَ فَسَمِعَ بُكَاءَ النِّسَاءِ عَلَي قَتْلَي صِفِّينَ وَ خَرَجَ إِلَيْهِ حَرْبُ بْنُ شُرَحْبِيلَ الشِّبَامِيِّ وَ كَانَ مِنْ وُجُوهِ قَوْمِهِ، فَقَالَ (عليه السلام): لَهُ أَ تَغْلِبُكُمْ نِسَاؤُكُمْ عَلَي مَا أَسْمَعُ أَ لَا تَنْهَوْنَهُنَّ عَنْ هَذَا الرَّنِينِ، وَ أَقْبَلَ حَرْبٌ يَمْشِي مَعَهُ وَ هُوَ (عليه السلام) رَاكِبٌ، فَقَالَ (عليه السلام): ارْجِعْ فَإِنَّ مَشْيَ مِثْلِكَ مَعَ مِثْلِي فِتْنَةٌ لِلْوَالِي وَ مَذَلَّةٌ لِلْمُؤْمِنِ

When Amir al-Mu'minin, peace be upon him, returned to Kufah from Siffin he passed by the residences of the Shibamites (who belinged to the teibe of Shibam) and heard the two men weeping over those killed in Siffin. At that time a Shibamite Harb ibn Shurahbil al-Shibami, who was one of the nobles of those people, came to him, and Amir al-Mu'minin, peace be upon him, said to him: Do your women have control over you as regards the weeping that I hear? Do you not refrain them from his crying? Harb began to walk him while Amir al-Mu'minin was on horseback, so Amir al-Mu'minin, peace be upon him, said ti him: Get back because the walking of a man like you with one like me is mischief for the ruler and disgrace for the believer.